Mom’s have always been a target for marketers and for good reason: the Marketing to Moms Coalition reports that moms control 85 percent of household spending and account for nearly $2.1 trillion a year. Plus their influence carries on, even when mom isn’t around: 40% of college freshman say their mom is the most important and influential person they have ever known (as noted in the New York Times).
So while we know they are desirable for brand marketers, what we also know is that they are uniquely hard-wired for the word-of-mouth, viral opinion sharing that is at the heart of social media: they pass along good information (e.g. 80% of moms pass along emails they find valuable – Lucid Marketing and BSM Media, 2004,) and rely on recommendations from others for many purchase decisions [I have seen numbers as high as 64% of moms relying on recommendations attributed to a 2002 study but I’ve also seen a more recent Razorfish Study that shows 29% of online moms first find out about a product from their friends/family (only behind TV), 31% of online moms find out more through such referrals, and 21% make a decision based on these referrals (second only to websites)].
How to Tap into the Mom Network
Companies have continually tried to aggregate content and build communities that appeal to women in an effort to help marketers and advertisers reach this coveted demographic. The grandma of all these efforts is iVillage.com, now part of NBC, and is ranked as the 250th most trafficked site on the internet, with 73% of the monthly 4.2 million visitors in the US being women according to quantcast. But guess what, the engagement factor is pretty low – at only 7 monthly pages viewed per monthly person – and they skew old with 28% of the visitors being over 50 years old (more than double other mom-centric sites).
Now granted, iVillage is more women-oriented than mom-focused (Parenting is the 2nd on the list of similar interests, right behind Women), so I looked at other mom-oriented sites (trying to stay away from solely baby-centric sites) using stats from quantcast:
Site |
Rank |
Monthly Visits (US) |
Monthly Pages per Person |
Percent of Users Heavy or Regular Users |
Percent of Visits from Heavy or Regular Users |
iVillage.com |
250 |
4.2 mil |
6.7 |
22% |
50% |
parents.com |
587 |
2.2 mil |
12.7 |
25% |
56% |
cafemom.com |
1,273 |
1.2 mil |
54.3 |
41% |
86% |
baby-gaga.com |
2,964 |
551K |
43.5 |
33% |
75% |
CircleofMoms.com |
5,969 |
268K |
n/a |
24% |
45% |
Again, these are just a sampling of sites, but the level of engagement (looking at pageviews and amount of users and visitors that are not just passerbys but regularly engaging) for cafemom.com is very impressive, especially when compared to some of the bigger rivals. But something more interesting popped up when looking at the monthly traffic trends: these sites were stagnant with regards to the monthly traffic. As moms get online, these mom-centric hubs just aren’t growing. Maybe the website is indeed dead.
Naturally I jumped to the conclusion that moms have moved the conversation to Facebook, where 54% of the users are female and 48% have children 0-17 at home (compared to the 41% at iVillage and 59% at cafemom.com). Indeed, a (recent AdWeek article) noted that “mothers aged 25-35 with at least one child at home are 85 percent more likely to spend time with Facebook compared to the average online consumer.”
So I looked at very simplistic terms (baby, mom) in Facebook Lexicon to see if we could spot any growth in the usage of the terms on users walls and status updates:
In general these topics show no growth and are fairly flat (other than blips in May for Mother’s Day and the use of “baby” during Valentines), which is surprising when you consider the growth in the overall Facebook user base. So I tried more topic-specific items like “diapers” and “parenting” to look at the trend:
These mom-oriented phrases on walls and status updates appear to have grown in 2008, reached a plateau in February, 2009, but have been steadily falling since. While this is a crude look because we have few other tools to understand Facebook demographics, it does seem to suggest that moms have left Facebook behind for a different platform to discuss and share. Facebook did little to make moms happy when they removed some photos of moms breastfeeding, causing over 115,000 users to protest online and in front of their offices in January. Whether that was the impetus for flight or not, it appears that the more vocal and social of moms have left. So where are they now?
Moms Blogging a New Trail
I’ve been seeing more and more mentions of mom-blogging in the last month as a new phenomenon (although moms have been blogging for years) – they are very social, sharing their opinions about products and their life, but very small and disparate. Musings from a VC in NYC shared “The top 50 Mom blogs generate about 30 M Pageviews / month. The real strength of Mom blogs lies in the long tail. There are hundreds of thousands of mom blogs that generate > 10k Pageviews / month.”
Even while I’ve been thinking about this for a couple weeks after listening to more and more marketers talk about mom-oriented sites and the emphasis of women, the excitement around mommy-blogging is hitting new heights. AdAge came out this week with a video report ”Inside the Mommy Blogger Business” (definitely worth a view) which notes that no one really knows how big the group of mommy bloggers are (because no one is tracking the metrics), but hazards a guess of 5 million mommy bloggers.
Getting to the actual growth of mom bloggers is something I’m trying to piece together (it helps complete the picture that vocal and engaged moms have moved beyond the Facebook platform to blogging). WordPress has seen the overall number of bloggers grow over 20% since January and blogger.com traffic is up nearly 15% in the last three months. BlogHer.com has seen 73% growth year over year, with mostly female bloggers.
Clearly there’s been growth and marketers are taking notice, trying to figure out how to leverage this group. MomsWhoBlog.com notes “It is estimated that 80% of blogger moms are reviewing products” already. They also tell mom bloggers, “as a mom blogger, you WILL BE approached by marketers, it also means that you need to ensure that you do not end up being used by them.”
I think the more interesting trend here is that if users are given easy-to-use tools to host and run their own blogs and customize them (the add-ins for WordPress and Blogger have a vibrant developer community, much like Facebook Applications), then vocal, truly engaged moms (and others) are going to rely less and less on rigid aggregated communities (like iVillage or cafemom.com) and even Facebook itself.